Aromatheraphy for lovers

Of all the mysteries that enchant us
Love is my favorite

What is Love? Where does it come from? Where does it go,when it fades away?
These are question that have occupied human kind for thousand of years. You'd think we'd have some answer by now! Yet the mystery remains for each human being to unravel anew. Every heart is an uncharted wilderness, a new frontier. To Love and to be love,requires above all a sense of adventure, a capacity for wonder, and a willingness to put up with substandard accommodations occasionally a long the way.
So many people I talk to are frustrated in their pursuit of love. Those who have found romantic love struggle to keep it live amidst the drudgery and mundane concerns of everyday life.
One of the most common complaints I hear among my contemporaries is the telling that the we are on the front lines of the gender wars. What does it mean today to be a man,or to be a woman? Who plays what role when,and for how long, and with what degree of enthusiasm? who does the dishes?

....to be continue...

sisters

Sisters

> A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and
> visiting with her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about
> the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother
> clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober
> glance upon her daughter.
>
> "Don't forget your Sisters," she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the
> bottom of her glass.
>
> "They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love
> your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you
> are still going to need Sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then;
> do things with them. "Remember that 'Sisters' means ALL the women... your
> girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives too.
> "You'll need other women. Women always do."
> What a funny piece of advice!' the young woman thought. Haven't I just
> gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married
> woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely my husband and the family we may
> start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!'
>
> But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her Sisters and made
> more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another,
> she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was
> talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries
> upon a woman, Sisters are the mainstays of her life.
>
> After more than 50 years of living in this world, here is what I've
> learned: THIS SAYS IT ALL:
>
> Time passes.
> Life happens.
> Distance separates.
> Children grow up.
> Jobs come and go.
> Love waxes and wanes.
> Men don't do what they're supposed to do.
> Hearts break.
> Parents die.
> Colleagues forget favors.
> Careers end.
> BUT.........
> Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how
> many miles are between you.
> A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.
> When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you
> have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the
> valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on
> your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end.
> Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you...Or come in
> and carry you out.
Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters,
> sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and
> extended family, all bless our life!
> The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I.
> When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the
> incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we
> would need each other.
> Every day, we need each other still.
> Pass this on to all the women who help make your
> life meaningful. I just did.

>
> Short and very sweet:
> There are more than twenty angels in this world.
> Ten are peacefully
> sleeping
> on clouds. Nine are playing.

Are you smarter than a 5th grader? The challenge is on - can you open the spreadsheet?

This is a real 5th grade math problem. If you can open the spreadsheet, you'll see that only a small list of
people have gotten the correct answer. This is not a trick question. This is a real math problem so don't say that a bus
has no legs.

There are 7 girls in a bus.
Each girl has 7 backpacks.
In each backpack, there are 7 big cats.
For every big cat, there are 7 little cats.

Question: How many legs are there in the bus?

Jangan berdiri disamping makamku dan menangis,
Aku tidak ada disitu,
Aku tidak tidur,
Aku adalah seribu angin yang berhembus,
Aku adalah kilau permata diatas salju,
Aku adalah sinar mentari pada gandum matang
Aku adalah hujan dimusim gugur,
Kalau kau bangun dalam kesunyian pagi,
Aku adalah kepakan sayap yang cepat,
Dari burung-burung yg terbang berputar-putar.
Aku lah bintang yang bersinar dimalam hari.
Jangan berdiri disamping makamku dan menangis,
Aku tidak ada disitu,
Aku tidak tidur,